pj, I don't know whether to post this here or p.m. you...well, I've started now, maybe will be a little interesting to some other...Denise?
You haven't ask for it, but here is a punch that every party we ever served it, and there were lots, Roy had to go out and buy more ingredients to keep up. Even alcohol drinkers loved it. I thot of it as you were talking about the 'olderly' folks party you may do.
FAUX CHAMPAGNE
Recipe By: a Chef's Journey
34 ozs bottle carbonated water, chilled
34 ozs ginger ale, chilled
24 ounces unsweetened white grape juice, chilled
Ice cubes or party ice cubes (see below)
In a lg. pitcher combine carbonated water, ginger ale, & grape juice.
Pour over ice cubes in chilled champagne glasses or wine glasses (or punch bowl).
Serve immediately. Makes about 20 4-oz. servings.
FOR PARTY ICE: Place small pcs. of fruit (berries or tiny citrus wedges), small sprigs of fresh mint, or 1/2" strips of orange peel into the compartments of ice cube trays. Add enuf water to fill, then freeze.
Yield:
"20 4-oz servings"
NOTES : Party guests love this 'punch' - Be sure to take extra.
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And from Nicole's book, these are some of the favorites over the years -
Sesame Eggplant Salsa, pg. 152
Sun-Dried Tomato and pesto Torta, pg. 156
roasted Beet Salad w/Gorgonzola, pg. 184
I'll stop - you'll find your own favorites!!

have fun.